[alas this is the type of family you are stuck with...]

What, no!! [said pretty quickly too!] Sheesh, you're more like those hard-boiled boss ladies. Tohno'll never let me hear the end of it if you do all the work, not like I'd be OK with that either. [grumbles a bit...] Let's just be careful, I guess. We're keeping it small, so it shouldn't get too messy.